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dì qī shí jiǔ kè dāng péng yǒu bào yuàn shí, qù ān wèi tā!
第七十九課 當(dāng)朋友抱怨時，去安慰他！
Lesson 79 Try to comfort a complaining friend!
People complain or grumble sometimes about trifles or bad luck that happen to them, like being stuck in a traffic jam or being turned down for a job. One of the reasons why people complain a lot is that it makes them feel better. A good friend should be a good listener, too. Allow your friend to talk about his grievances and express his feelings. Listen patiently and, when necessary, offer suggestions of what you could do to help.
人們有時候會抱怨或發(fā)牢騷，抱怨發(fā)生在自己身上的一些瑣事或倒霉事，比如：遇到堵車或工作不順心。人們喜歡抱怨的其中的一個原因是，傾吐之后心情會變得好些，即一吐為快。一個好朋友同時也應(yīng)該是一個忠實的傾聽者。允許你的朋友訴說自己的苦惱，表達自己的感情。耐心傾聽，在必要的時候給予適當(dāng)?shù)慕ㄗh，看看自己能為對方做些什么。 |
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lì li: mài kè, nǐ jīn tiān liǎn sè bù tài hǎo, bù shū fú ma?
麗麗：麥克，你今天臉色不太好，不舒服嗎？? 
Lili: You don't look so good today, Mike, why?
mài kè: jiǎn zhí zāo tòu le! zuó wǎn lín jū jiā bàn wǎn huì, chǎo de wǒ méi fǎr shuì jiào.
麥克：簡直糟透了！昨晚鄰居家辦晚會，吵得我沒法兒睡覺。? 
Mike: I'm in a terrible state! My next-door neighbor had a party last night. I couldn't get to sleep with so much noise going on.
lì li: yuán lái shì zhè yàng. huàn le wǒ yě huì xiū xi bù hǎo de.
麗麗：原來是這樣，換了我也會休息不好的。? 
Lili: I see. I wouldn't be able to sleep well in that situation, either.
mài kè: hái yǒu gèng zāo de, zǎo shàng gāng yī chū mén, zì xíng chē tāi bào le, wǒ yòu jí jí máng máng pǎo qù xiū chē.
麥克：還有更糟的，早上剛一出門，自行車胎爆了，我又急急忙忙跑去修車。? 
Mike: What is more, my bicycle tire punctured in the morning as soon as I mounted, and I had to have it repaired on my way to work.
lì li: hái hǎo, nǐ dōu méi yǒu chí dào. wǒ zuò gōng jiāo chē dǔ zài lù shàng le, chí dào le wǔ fēn zhōng.
麗麗：還好，你都沒有遲到。我坐公交車堵在路上了，遲到了五分鐘。? 
Lili: Fortunately, you were not late. I took the bus and got stuck in traffic, and I was five minutes late.
mài kè: kàn lái nǐ jīn tiān yě bù shùn, zhēn wèi nǐ nán guò.
麥克：看來你今天也不順，真為你難過。? 
Mike: Seems you are not having a lucky day, either. Sorry to hear that.
lì li: bǐ cǐ bǐ cǐ. zuò xià xiē huǐr, hē bēi kā fēi ba.
麗麗：彼此彼此。坐下歇會兒，喝杯咖啡吧。? 
Lili: Same here. Sit down and take a rest. Have a cup of coffee.
mài kè: hǎo de. shì shí shàng, wǒ lián zǎo fàn dōu hái méi gù de shàng chī ne.
麥克：好的。事實上，我連早飯都還沒顧得上吃呢。? 
Mike: Ok. Actually I have been too busy to have breakfast yet.
lì li: nà nǐ zuì hǎo hái shì xiān qù chī diǎnr dōng xi ba.
麗麗：那你最好還是先去吃點兒東西吧。? 
Lili: Then, you'd better go and get something to eat first.
mài kè: bù xíng a, wǒ shǒu tóu shàng yǒu yī duī shìr, lǎo bǎn zài bù tíng de cuī wǒ.
麥克：不行啊，我手頭兒上有一堆事兒，老板在不停地催我。? 
Mike: No way. I have a lot of work on hand. The boss keeps pressing me to finish it.
lì li: bié zhāo jí, yáo bù yào wǒ bāng nǐ zuò xiē shén me?
麗麗：別著急，要不要我?guī)湍阕鲂┦裁矗? 
Lili: Don't worry. Let's see if I can do anything to help you.
mài kè: wǒ xiǎng wǒ kě yǐ gǎo dìng, zhǐ shì xīn lǐ yǒu diǎnr fán.
麥克：我想我可以搞定，只是心里有點兒煩。? 
Mike: I think I can get it all done; I just feel a little bit upset.
lì li: xià bān hòu zǎo diǎnr huí jiā xiū xi. ò, kā fēi zhǔ hǎo le.
麗麗：下班后早點兒回家休息。哦，咖啡煮好了。? 
Lili: Go home and go to bed early after work. Now, at least, the coffee is ready.
mài kè: wèi dào hǎo jí le, xiè xie nǐ de guān xīn!
麥克：味道好極了，謝謝你的關(guān)心！? 
Mike: It is nice and tastes delicious. Thanks for your concern!
New Words
生詞
抱怨 bào yuàn: complain; complaint? 
發(fā)牢騷 fā láo sao: complain; grumble? 
瑣事 suǒ shì: trifles, trifling things? 
悲傷 bēi shāng: grief? 
感情 gǎn qíng: feeling? 
傾聽 qīng tīng: listen? 
耐心地 nài xīn de: patiently? 
臉色 liǎn sè: color of the face; look? 
不舒服 bù shū fu: don't feel good; uncomfortable? 
糟糕 zāo gāo: what bad luck; too bad; in a terrible mess? 
鄰居 lín jū: next door; neighbor; neighborhood? 
吵鬧聲 chǎo nào shēng: noise? 
睡覺 shuì jiào: sleep; go to bed? 
自行車 zì xíng chē: bicycle? 
車胎 chē tāi: [bicycle] tire? 
急急忙忙 jí jí máng máng: in a hurry; in haste? 
修理 xiū lǐ: repair; have something repaired? 
遲到 chi dao: be late? 
堵車 dǔ chē: traffic jam? 
不順心 bú shùn xīn: unhappy; in a bad luck? 
彼此彼此 bǐ cǐ bǐ cǐ: same here; be on the same plane? 
咖啡 kā fēi: coffee? 
顧不上 gù bù shàng: be too busy to...? 
手頭兒 shǒu tóur: on hand; at hand? 
老板 lǎo bǎn: boss? 
催 cuī: force; push; press? 
搞定 gǎo dìng: get something done; have something done? 
煩 fán: vexed; be upset; be annoyed? 
味道 wèi dào: taste? 
關(guān)心 guān xīn: concern; be concerned with? 
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(China.org.cn by Li Jingrong)
